Unspoken Funeral Etiquette for Guests and Visitors

Posted on: Mar 21, 2021 Publish By: funerallink
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When it comes to conversations of life, the last taboo is considered death. People wouldn’t want to entertain the thought of death as it is associated with negative emotions such as grief, loss, and the untimely acceptance of people never coming back in life.

However, if there’s one thing in life that is certain as taxes, it’s death. Because death is a certain aspect of life, it’s only a matter of time until a funeral happens. When this happens, what do people do to ease the pain of suffering of the family, friends and loved ones of the deceased?

Here are common etiquettes funeral experts have compiled that people should follow:

Share a Fond Memory Instead of Focusing on the Lonely

People coming into the deceased’s house usually offer condolences in the form of saying, “my condolences to you and the entire family,” or “my thoughts/prayer with you.” However, if the conversation pushes through, it is best to reminisce the great memories shared with the departed to his family. In this manner, you leave them a piece of something they can be happy with instead of emphasizing the less.

A Comforting Gesture Goes a Long Way

It’s insensitive to say, “The pain will go away in no time,” or “he’s in a better place.” The golden rule to bear in mind is, what you don’t want to hear on your loved one’s funeral, you don’t say. Instead of saying these insensitive phrases, you can give them a hug, a comforting smile or a pause.

Don’t Question Medical Causes

It’s insensitive to question medical causes for the death of a person. In the first place, you visit a funeral to give your condolences and not to ask questions. At the same time, there’s no use mentioning or suggesting what could have been done to change the situation.

Be Subtle and Simple

A funeral is never a time for making fashion statements. The more traditional colors for mourning is grey, black, blue and dark violet. For some traditions, white is a considerable color. You can also opt for more outdoor-friendly ensembles as more funerals and more funerals are less conservative.

Offer Tangible Help to the Bereaved Family

If you are concerned with the overall wellness of the family, you can offer help to them as a means of comforting them. But, instead of saying empty promises just to please them, you can say, “I made everyone a meal,” or “I can fetch family members from the airport.”

These are just some of the most common funeral etiquette people forget to do. By following our compilations above, you can send your sincerest condolences to the bereaved family.

 

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