When it comes to celebrations of life, a funeral is something that people don’t wish for. Of course, this is because of a devastating loss and a funeral has become a tradition of goodbyes and remembrance. However, death is inevitable. It can be sudden or expected, but it is always tragic.
Since death is inevitable, one can only hope to be prepared for when that faithful moment comes. As such, planning a funeral needs careful consideration for a thoughtful commemoration of life. When it comes to funeral planning, a family can keep all the elements of a funeral intact or add more.
But, if you’re having a hard time deciding which to include, this article will help you identify elements for a funeral for a commemoration of life.
Throughout time, music has played a significant part in the release and expression of emotions. If you want to conduct your funeral or memorial service, music can play a part for everyone’s expression of loss, grief and sadness. For your selection of music and sounds, you can stick to religious songs, traditional hymns, instrumentals or spiritual sounds. Moreover, identifying the tone of the service can also help narrow down your song selections. If it’s a happy commemoration of the deceased’s life, upbeat songs can uplift everyone’s mood.
As part of the Filipino traditions, visitations and wakes are done as an opportunity for family members, friends and loved ones to gather and say goodbyes to the deceased. Most of the time, visitations or wakes are done in a funeral chapel, home or other appropriate places. If you have a funeral package, the funeral parlor can accommodate visitation venues for a more convenient set-up.
In addition to the mentioned elements, it has been a proud Filipino tradition to offer prayers and bible readings to the deceased. Moreover, a rosary is being sung at around 6 PM as a way of commemorating or wishing the deceased family’s life of guidance and spiritual wellness despite the loss.
A speech from a friend, family member or a loved one in honor of the deceased’s life is a common element for funerals. Most of the time, eulogies remind the living of how the deceased lived life and how it was celebrated through his existence.
Memories, on the other hand, is usually a photo viewing or a slideshow reminding people how the deceased used to live life and how he will be remembered. Memories can be shared to other people to reinforce their moments when the person is still living.
Funeral planning and funerals take time, effort and money to have. Having a funeral plan saves the family from the unnecessary hassles such as preparations while commemorating a person’s life.
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